Balaam is hired to curse the Jews. On his way we have the famous story of his talking donkey. What is interesting is that Balaam was so concerned with cursing the Jews that he did not notice that his donkey was talking to him. We sometimes miss the obvious.
And now for a quick devar Torah.
This week we read a double portion, and the second is Parashat Balak. One question immediately comes to mind. Why is the parashah named after Balak? The most famous character is not Balak at all—it’s Balaam. Balaam occupies most of the story. He speaks the blessings, he argues with his donkey, and he becomes one of the most memorable figures in the entire Torah. Yet the parashah is named after Balak.
The answer may be that Balak is the one who sets everything in motion. He sees the Israelites approaching and decides this is not simply a military struggle but a spiritual one. He hires Balaam, believing that if he cannot defeat Israel with swords, perhaps he can defeat them with curses. Balak begins the plot, but once he does, God takes over. Balak starts the story; God determines how it ends. It reminds us that people may begin events, but ultimately God guides history.
Then there is Balaam himself. He is so focused on his mission that he completely misses what is happening right in front of him. His donkey sees the angel with the drawn sword blocking the road, but Balaam sees nothing. The donkey refuses to move, Balaam beats it, and then the donkey begins to speak. Only then does Balaam realize something extraordinary is happening.
It’s almost humorous. The donkey could speak, yet Balaam wasn’t surprised. He was so obsessed with reaching his destination that he overlooked the obvious miracle standing right before him.
Psychologists call this inattentional blindness. A famous experiment asked people to watch two basketball teams passing a ball and count the passes. While they were concentrating, a person in a gorilla suit walked across the court, stopped, waved at the audience, and walked off. Remarkably, many viewers never saw the gorilla because they were so focused on counting passes.
Balaam made the same mistake. His focus blinded him to reality.
Perhaps we do the same thing.
What’s fascinating is that throughout Parashat Balak, the Jewish people are almost passive. They have no idea that a foreign king is trying to destroy them spiritually. They are busy worrying about their own daily concerns, while behind the scenes God is protecting them from a danger they never even knew existed. The curses that were meant to destroy them become some of the greatest blessings ever spoken.
There is an important lesson here. We all become consumed by our own problems—our work, our families, our worries, our frustrations. Sometimes we become so focused on what’s directly in front of us that we fail to see the larger picture. We forget that God may be working behind the scenes in ways we cannot yet understand.
At the same time, the parashah reminds us that we must remain aware of the world around us. Not everyone who approaches us is a friend, and not every threat is obvious. We should deal honestly with our internal disagreements, but never become so divided by them that we lose sight of those who seek to harm us from the outside.
Balak teaches us to keep our eyes open—to notice what we might otherwise miss, to trust that God is working even when we cannot see it, and to remain united in the face of challenges.
Something to think about.
